Looking for local Aussie or Kiwi swingers? Then you want to join the swinger dating site that is popular for your local area & not what is popular in another country on the other side of the planet. The vanilla dating sites and apps are not going to be much help as they are filled with mostly monogamous people who aren’t always too open minded. Real swingers tend to value their private and stick to using the dedicated swinger sites which are more discreet. Joining the local swinger site will also help connect you with the private house parties and swinger clubs.
How We Tested – Our testers have collected data from all across Australia and Oceania to find the most popular lifestyle site for each city. We took into consideration free vs paid accounts, active vs dormant, couples vs singles, and several other data factors to be as fair and accurate as possible. If two sites had similar popularity, they are joint winners. If a site wasn’t the most popular but still very notable it earned a honorable mention. We strive to provide the most accurate results and welcome your help. If you have updated information or new insights, let us know. This list was last updated June 16, 2020.
New Swinger Advice – Most swinging sites offer a free trial registration but it is often useless. Experienced swingers tend to avoid free members because they are much more likely to be fake accounts trying to steal private pictures. Plus if a swinger isn’t willing to spend money on a sign-up, it is seen as a sign they aren’t serious and/or won’t have money to party together on swinger dates. The smart option is to pay for a lifetime membership when available or the annual package. That sounds like a scary investment but it is usually much cheaper than paying monthly for a few months. To safeguard your swinger privacy & discretion, you can pay with a Visa gift card using an alias and separate email address.
Recap – Spoiler alert … Red Hot Pie aka RHP is by far the big overall winner for Australia and Kiwi Swingers is the winner for New Zealand. The real interesting thing is that there are several popular runner-ups for different Australian cities like Adult Match Maker (AMM), Swingers Heaven (SH), and Fling Finder (FF). If you don’t like RHP or are looking to try to find some new swinger friends from outside your RHP network, you can try these alternative swinger sites. Just remember they are the popular runner-up and not the most popular option.
What are the most popular Aussie & Kiwi swinging sites?
|Australian Cities||Most Popular Swinger Site(s)|
|Canberra, New South Wales||Winner: RedHotPie|
|Newcastle, New South Wales||Winner: RedHotPie|
|Sydney, New South Wales||Winner: RedHotPie, Honorable Mention: AMM, FF|
|Wollongong, New South Wales||Winner: RedHotPie|
|Darwin, Northern Territory||Winner: RedHotPie|
|Brisbane, Queensland||Winner: RedHotPie, Honorable Mention: AMM, SH|
|Cairns, Queensland||Winner: RedHotPie, Honorable Mention: SH|
|Gold Coast, Queensland||Winner: RedHotPie|
|Sunshine Coast, Queensland||Winner: RedHotPie|
|Townsville, Queensland||Winner: RedHotPie, Honorable Mention: SH|
|Adelaide, South Australia||Winner: RedHotPie, Honorable Mention: AMM, SH|
|Hobart, Tasmania||Winner: RedHotPie, Honorable Mention: SH|
|Geelong, Victoria||Winner: RedHotPie|
|Melbourne, Victoria||Winner: RedHotPie, Honorable Mention: AMM, SH|
|Perth, Western Australia||Winner: RedHotPie|
|New Zealand Cities|
|Auckland, New Zealand||Winner: Kiwi Swingers|
|Christchurch, New Zealand||Winner: Kiwi Swingers|
|Hamilton, New Zealand||Winner: Kiwi Swingers|
|Wellington, New Zealand||Winner: Kiwi Swingers|
|Singapore, SG||Winner: SDC|
What does a swinger dating site cost?
Here are the prices for the big Aussie & Kiwi swinging dating sites in local currency.
Red Hot Pie aka RHP – Biggest Australian swinger dating site. $52/month or $152/annual
Adult Match Maker aka AMM – A common runner-up and our second favorite site for Australia. $49/month or $160/annual
Swingers Heaven – Another common runner-up site for Australia. $36/month or $160/annual.
Fling Finder – Decent site but it needs to grow bigger. $40/month or $60/quarter
Kiwi Swingers – Most popular option for New Zealand. $30/month or $100/annual
SDC aka Swingers Date Club – Popular in many international cities. $250 lifetime fee.
There are several other swinger dating sites. Most of them aren’t popular enough for this list and others are outright scams. You should stick with these popular sites that are legitimate and have enough real members.
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