There are many Asian swingers who enjoy this sexy lifestyle & are a blast to meet and party along. If you have never discovered the sexy fun of Asian swingers, you might have some questions. Unfortunately, there are some myths surrounding Asians & sex so we are going to help answer those curious questions and debunk some myths that you might have thought about but were too afraid to ask.
Remember Asians Aren’t All the Same
Asia is a continent and a pretty big continent at that, plus all of the different Pacific islands that fall under this generic bucket. There are some lighter skinned Asians & some darker skinned Asians. They also speak many different languages and are as proud of their cultural heritage as you are of yours. When meeting an Asian swinger, act like an adult and show them the same respect as an individual that you want to be shown. It’s not hard but for some reasons people can be stricken with anxiety over things when a different race is involved. You are awesome, they are awesome, so just relax and be cool about it.
How to Find Asian Swingers?
Your local swinging community is a subset of your local community. If you live in an area with plenty of Asians like Hawaii or California, then you can expect to find many of them in your local swinger club or posting on your local swinger dating site. If you live in an area with few Asians, then you should expect to find few of them in your swinging experiences. The swinger clubs and parties reflect your local population and most cities don’t have a majority of Asian people, so Asian people are usually in the minority at swinging lifestyle parties.
If you are trying to specifically connect with Asian swingers, there are some Asian-centric swinger groups on the swinger dating websites that you can join. Why are there groups just for Asian swingers? Sometimes it is nice not being the only Asian couple at a party or being able to not worry that a new couple is chasing after you because they have an Asian fetish and aren’t looking to make a friendly connection. These groups are more about cultivating a welcoming environment & making people who otherwise might be overwhelmed in all of the hustle & bustle of the swinging lifestyle feel more comfortable.
Are Swingers into Asian People?
Absolutely! Swingers are a friendly bunch that are very welcoming to others who are respectful and fun to be around. For full disclosure, there are some swingers that have lived a sheltered life. They might have unfortunately been misled by some of the false swinger myths like Asian men having smaller equipment or Asian women having super sex goddess powers. Thankfully, the ignorant people are in the minority and swingers are generally eager to learn and improve beyond their sheltered pasts.
Are Asian Men As Well Endowed As Other Men?
Of course, Asian men are just like men all over the world and are equipped with pretty much the same sized equipment. The penis size myth has been thoroughly debunked. Unfortunately, there are some racist people who still like to spread the false claim that Asian men are smaller down below. When actual doctors measured erect equipment around the world, they found all humans are about the same. Yes, some research relying on self-reported numbers shows a difference but that is more about men in some countries lying & others being honest. Not to mention there are plenty of racists who like to claim black people have big equipment & low IQ, Asians have small equipment & high IQ, and white people have the perfect average that would make Goldilocks happy. Goldilocks & this myth both belong in the land of make believe.
Are Asian Ladies Smaller or Tighter Down Below?
Some Asian ladies might be great with maintaining their kegel exercises (which actually do work wonders) but they are biologically the same as women all over the world regardless of skin color or cultural background. Just like black swingers, white swingers & latina swingers – some are slightly smaller & some are slightly larger but the equipment is basically the same from woman to woman. While we are talking about Asian ladies, their equipment is not sideways despite what the guy who still hasn’t seen a naked woman told you back in high school. Some of the stuff people come up with truly boggles the mind. Repeat after me, we are all biologically the same.
Are Asian Men Cuckolds or Overly Effeminate?
Despite the stereotypes that you might see pushed in the porn industry that is trying to boost sales by telling fantasies, the reality is that Asian men are just like men of every other race. They like to drink, they like to party, and they like to get wild at swinger parties. Some may like the cuckold fetish the same way men in other cultures may also enjoy it, but overall they are as “manly” as any other guy you will meet. Unfortunately, this false myth persists and is one reason why the OKCupid dating site found Asian men receive an average rating of -12% from non-Asian women.
Are Asian Men Misogynists?
Yes, many Asian cultures have a misogynist history but so do many non-Asian cultures. The mistreatment of women remains a widespread issue across too many cultures around the world. That does not mean today’s Asian swingers are misogynistic or treat women poorly. Almost all men in the swinging lifestyle including Asians do a great job respecting and treating women as equals. There are more than enough Asian hot wives to prove the ladies have their own voice. Of course life is not perfect and there are a few bad apples in any group but that is not due to cultural issues in the lifestyle. It is more about isolated cases of misinformed idiots who don’t understand the swinging lifestyle. Often Asian men are more aware of other men being idiots as Asian women are often the target of misogynist behavior.
Why Is Asian Porn So Weird?
Every culture has their own kinks and the Asians are no different. Our friends from the Pacific have made tentacle porn a big thing (yes, it’s the fantasy of oversized tentacles having sex with humans). Not to mention the high pitched female whine that is common in Asian porn. Let’s not forget the hentai porn cartoons, which might have started in Asia but are now one of the most watched categories in the US. Asian porn might be different from what you prefer but we are all freaky in our own unique ways. How else do you explain the porn being made with furry costumes? Let’s be respectful & not yuck anyone’s yum 🙂
Don’t Be Insensitive or Offensive
Yes, many Asians have distinctive facial features. Life is more enjoyable when we focus on things that unite us and not of the things that separate us. Do not use the terms “slanted”, “yellow”, “jap”, “chink” which are offensive to many Asians and also offend many of us who are not Asian. Save the term “oriental” to describe objects like rugs or vases and never use it to refer to people because they aren’t property. Offending others is not sexy so be mature and smart by not saying anything that could come across best case as insensitive or worst case racist & offensive. The human race is not perfectly identical, which makes life much more interesting and fun. Be smart and keep your comments and swinger flirting focused on the common things that we all share like our sexy attitudes, hot outfits, & happy smiles.
Asian Swinger Decoder List
The lifestyle has its own swinging vocabulary. You probably are already familiar with many of these terms but just in case here are some related terms you might come across when talking with Asian swingers…
- This relates to the cuckolding fetish that can overlap with swinging but is a separate thing. A bull is the dominant male in a cuckold situation. The bull will have sex with the woman while the other man, aka the cuckold, does not actively participate. Not usually specific to skin color but the myth of Asian men having smaller equipment still lives on, so best to be aware.
- Sexy As F*ck. It has nothing to do with race.
- A petite lady who is so lightweight the man can “spin” her around during sex.
- Single white female. All single ladies in the swinging lifestyle are also called unicorns.
- Single white male.
- Refers to non-swinging world, has nothing to do with skin color