Hello, we are a married couple (she/her & he/him) who is somehow still happily married after more than 10 years. We have been enjoying our swing through the consensual non-monogamy community. Our experience hasn’t been perfect or 100% drama-free, but we are happy and confident we made the right decision for our life. For us, it was a good match, and the positives have vastly outnumbered the humorous headaches that have popped up along the way.
Like any other couple, we occasionally fight & argue, but more importantly, we strive to love & honor each other. Dr. Georgia makes good use of her PhD in psychology as she tries to figure out the latest crazy idea going through Mr. Fuchs’ mind. Please remember that even though Georgia is trained in psychology, she is not your psychologist. Everyone is different, and a simple answer rarely addresses everyone’s situation. For professional help with your relationship, please visit a marriage & family counselor.
This site is not advocating any specific decision. We are just sharing our experiences & points of view that might be helpful, or at least entertaining, to other curious people. It is up to you to decide if you want to learn about others and keep it as a fantasy or do something like visit your local swinger club or maybe anonymously browse a swinger dating site. It is completely up to you & your partner to decide what is best for you. Hopefully, we can help you uncover insights to make a better decision and feel more confident with your own decision.