If you listen to other swingers, you will soon realize many of their play sessions can go for a long sweaty time in bed. Honestly, that is often the truth. Swinger bedroom fun can go much longer than a vanilla bedroom rendevous.
Swinger sex tends to be different than our vanilla playtime. When having fun with our partner at home, we often squeeze it into our busy schedule. It is like how eating a meal at home is often much faster and less involved than when we go to a fancy restaurant. Eating out in restaurants offers more opportunities & experiences to explore from the menu. The same goes for swinger dates. When you have more naked people, more things can happen.
Before we dive in, let’s take a moment to remember not everyone enjoys long play sessions. Our sensitive bits can become too sensitive from overplaying. Focusing more on quality and worrying less about quantity is usually the better approach. This is not a competition, so don’t worry about keeping the score. Ultimately, you should do what works best for you & your partner.
So how can an average person keep up with a marathon session of adult fun? As always, we are here to help & explain. Here are easy ways to last longer in bed and go multiple rounds on your next swinger date. Let’s dive in!
Work On Cardio
Swinger fun tends to be more of a marathon than a sprint. The best way to prep for a marathon is to work on your cardio in the gym. Building up your tone muscles looks hot, but building up your cardio endurance is what lets a swinger go on & on for hours. So when you aren’t swinging, go for walks, take a bike ride, or do whatever you prefer to build your cardio.
Ok, most of you don’t have that time, so let’s talk about the savvy ways you can last longer without becoming a gym rat.
Practice Makes It Perfect
Practicing edging at home is a fun way to work on your cardio. Play with yourself and see how long you can keep yourself on that edge without going over.
Does that sound boring? Then practice edging with your partner. Touch yourselves in front of each other. Make it a competition to see who can edge the longest while you both try to push each other over the edge.
Consider Using ED Pills
Let’s be honest. It is common for men to use ED pills in the lifestyle because these pills can really change things. Some men find it harder to climax when using ED pills, so they can last much longer before climaxing (assuming they ever do climax). You should definitely talk to your doctor before using ED pills. If you are worried about talking with your doctor, talk to an online doctor, which many ED pill sites offer for free.
Change Positions
Not all positions are as comfortable as others. Even if you start in a comfortable position, muscles can tire out. Moving into different positions lets you swap out tired muscles for fresh muscles. Something as simple as starting on top and switching to your swinging partner moving on top can double your fun time.
When groups of swingers play together, you can form chains and other combos. You can experiment with group positions like multiple people playing on one person, so no one person has all the pressure of giving pleasure. Sometimes it can take a village to reach a climax.
Sneaky Snack Timeouts
No one likes to admit they ran out of energy & can’t go on. Bringing along some snacks will create a distraction for you to recharge your batteries. Pulling out some chocolate-covered strawberries, mini pastries, or whatever can create a distraction to help you rest up. This is a good way to let your muscles & breath recover so you can go another play round or two. Best to keep the snacks easy to eat, like a one-bite treat. You don’t want to make a mess in bed.
Bonus points for creativity, like making a sexy scene. Pull out a can of whip cream & chocolate syrup to draw on a naked lady’s body. Top it with some strategically placed berries. Then have everyone surround her and lick up the human dessert together.
Replacing Jackhammers
Hard & fast pounding from a jackhammer session can be hot, but it is simply not sustainable. Sure, you might see porn doing it for hours, but that is fake editing & not real life. Swinger play sessions often turn more into marathons & not quickies. Besides, jackhammer sessions can be unenjoyable if they go too long. So open up your dirty mind.
Think about oral play options. You can put your hot mouth on many different places on their body & they can then return the favor. Show off how good your freaky fingers can make them feel. There are many different ways to make them feel so good their toes will curl.
Fake Climaxes
Do you have a problem having multiple climaxes in the same play session? Hopefully, you can feel comfortable enough to share this with your play partner, and they will be cool about it. Some less mature swingers feel their partners need to climax multiple times, or it means they didn’t do a good job.
As much as we wish others could be mature & cool about adult things, not everyone can be. One way to deal with this is fake your climax. This way, you can earn a brief break while people clean up and swap out condoms. No need to worry about dealing with your actual refractory period.
Bisexual Backup
To make play sessions last longer, you can mix things up by switching to bi-play. If only the ladies are bisexual, this is a perfect way for the men to enjoy a hot show while they recharge their bodies. If the men are bisexual, they can recharge their batteries by pushing the reset button and letting their bodies recover while enjoying some slow bi kisses & touches. Take your time and enjoy the opportunity for bi fun with your friends.
Precisely Pouring Alcohol
Drinking alcohol impacts us all a little bit differently. For many, having a small amount of alcohol will slightly desensitize things letting us last longer. Be super careful because too much alcohol can lead to a complete failure to launch. Practice this at home to figure out what is the right amount.
Water Chasers
If you want to last longer for a marathon play session, treat it like a real marathon and hydrate. With each alcoholic drink, chase it with water. After each swinger round, take a water break. Offer to grab a water bottle for your partner.
You are all working up a sweat, so hydrate! It lets your body perform better and creates a sneaky distraction so you can catch your breath.
Picture Time
You can have a sexy time on swinger dates without even being physical. You all look super hot, so it would be a great time to take some pictures (assuming everyone freely consents). Some Mardi Gras masks can help protect privacy.
Have fun in bed during the first play round, then take a break for some hot pics. This will let you recharge your batteries for another hot & sweaty play round. You can use the pics to update your swinger profile and remember these hot moments.
Sex Toy Rescue
If your body needs a recharge, let a fully charged sex toy fill in that gap. You can use a magic wand on women & men. Yes, there are silicone sleeve attachments for magic wands. There are also vibrating c*ck rings that men can wear. These can give you both a good buzz as you slowly grind together and catch your breath. You can also try a strap-on for the ladies to have bi fun or explore pegging. Be creative and embrace the countless toys that are available.
Since we are discussing sex toys, it is a good time to mention the importance of quality lube. None of us want to feel chafing. When having a marathon session, our body’s natural lubrication might be unable to keep up. Better to use lube too early than wait until there is a problem.
Ultimately…
Swinging should be a fun bonus to your amazing life. It is about enjoying life however is most enjoyable for you. Remember, these tips are here if you are having a great time and wish you could stretch out the fun a little bit longer. Swinging is best when we focus on the smiles and never keep score.