So you’re interested in swinging? Whatever has attracted you to the lifestyle, swinging can be a great way to have some fun, meet new people, and explore yourself and your partner. But where do you start? The information out there can be daunting, so we’ve compiled an easy step-by-step list of everything you need to do to. … [Read More...] about How to Start Swinging Beginners Guide
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Guide to Hosting Swinger Parties
So you want to invite some swingers over to your house for a sexy time? Great idea! House parties are awesome, but they usually require a bit of work. Your pals at Swingers Help are happy to help you make this a sexy, fun & safe experience for you and all of your guests. We’ll […]
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First time & still processing it all
Shared by exhibit–A My husband and I are both exhibitionists. We both like the idea of sex in front of other people but for obvious reasons, we don’t want to get caught/arrested for public indecency. We thought about posting sex videos online but worry we wouldn’t be able to maintain our anonymity and wouldn’t want […]
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State of Play Swinger Survey Results – 2022
We are very grateful to the over 2,000 survey respondents who shared a peek inside their lifestyle experiences in our third annual State of Play swinger survey! Due to the robust response, we have split up the data. This report data represents the 1,620 survey respondents who have had an in-person swinging experience. We will […]
Top Rated Swinger Resorts & Destinations
Want to have an extra sexy vacation? Then check out a swinger friendly resort! Or as our hot European friends like to say, a “libertine” friendly resort. Whatever you call these sensual vacation spots, here are places you can go on vacation and find new friends share some hot playtime. These adult-only vacation options are […]
Helpful Senior Swinging Tips
You are never too old to swing. We know many swingers that keep saying they’re going to retire from the swinging life, but they keep going out because they keep meeting other sexy people interested in playing. If you take care of yourself, you can still be turning heads for many years. There are a […]
Sexy Swinger Game Options
You are going to be meeting a bunch of new people and hopefully want to have a sexy time with these new swinger friends. So how do you tastefully get from casual chatting to clothes falling off? Don’t worry. We are here to help! Before we talk about the different swinger game options, we should […]
Most Popular Swinging Sites by City
Are you trying to find local swingers? The answer is simple – sign up for the swinging dating site popular in your local area. Swingers tend to work hard at being discreet and protecting their privacy, so vanilla sites & events tend to be a waste of time. If you want to connect with local […]
Selecting A Swinger Cruise
If you ever thought that there just aren’t many swingers or people that enjoy the sexier side of life, check out all of these swinger cruises and see how many are already sold out! These are cruise ships completely filled with thousands of your closest lifestyle friends. That’s right! There are so many swingers in […]
Uncovering Las Vegas Swinging Lifestyle Scene
You might think that Las Vegas is the best lifestyle vacation, but it actually isn’t. You can have sexy fun, but Vegas focuses more on getting people drunk on overpriced alcohol and gambling their money away. Swingers aren’t as profitable, so Vegas doesn’t cater as much to the lifestyle. Thankfully here is a comprehensive list […]
What Are The Sexiest Swinger Conventions?
Are you feeling lonely? Do you long for a sexy community experience where you can be yourself and flaunt your sexiness amongst an appreciative audience? There are several super-sized lifestyle gatherings with great workshops so you can learn hot new tips, guest appearances from your favorite adult shows, and crazy parties each night. Here are […]
Deciding Personal Swinging Rules
Each couple in the lifestyle makes different rules to protect their relationship. These rules will often evolve to better match what works for their relationship. Some swingers may not like your rules, or you might not like their rules. That is ok. We all respect each other and know that our own relationship takes priority […]
Convincing Your Partner to Swing
Before we cover this topic, we need to remind our dear readers that you can’t trick or coerce your partner into swinging. Too many people are in unhappy relationships and are trying to make their partner into something they aren’t. You will have about the same success rate in “convincing” your unhappy partner to be […]